On the other hand, it could be that you are looking for something more casual, someone to talk to or something else altogether! Whatever it is, you are going to put yourself first, in a way that you might not have in your twenties.
Maybe you are happily single, perhaps you are looking for a long-term partner, marriage, kids, a dog, the whole shabang. Or would you like someone to enhance the brilliant life you already have? Perhaps a little more likely.Īt this point, you have probably worked out what you are looking for from online dating. Do you want someone who is the centre of your universe? Probably not.
It is now more than ever a great time to be selfish.Īs bad as that sounds, you know what you want and what you are not prepared to accept. By the time you reach your 30s, most women have a clear sense of what they want in life, professionally, personally and romantically.